Female orgasm has been a popular topic of discussion since time immemorial. The euphoric sensation that occurs during climax is one of the most mysterious aspects of pleasure within us, and while much has been learned about it over the years, many questions remain unanswered even today. What factors influence a woman’s ability to have an orgasm? How long is it going to last? How can we improve ourselves so that our climax is even more powerful than before?
Even women who have had it will frequently misinterpret the feel-good chemicals that cause it. You know those feelings of total ecstasy? They’re not all that mysterious, and we’re here to increase your knowledge about female orgasms. Get ready to be led to orgasm land!
First, type of female Orgasms
Clitoral orgasm: This is so common that it is often overlooked. The clit deserves your undivided attention, as does your partner’s. So it doesn’t matter if he finishes before you get to the point of no return; simply grab his hand and dictate the motions down there.
G-spot orgasm: You know, the one where the G-spot is hit sweetly with each thrust and you simultaneously request that he re-enact the point above. This works best if you play the cowgirl.
Nipple orgasm: Are you serious? Absolutely. The fact that the same areas of the brain are activated during both clitoral and nipple stimulation should be enough to convince you to let him focus solely on your ta-tas tonight.
Vaginal orgasm: Don’t dismiss orgasms through penetrative sex entirely. According to experts, the deeper the thrust, the more powerful the vaginal orgasm. The key is to track down the elusive G-spot.
Stages of Orgasms
Phase of Excitement
The first stage of female orgasm is all about feeling alive in your body. It’s where you let go and have total abandon as your body reacts to the extreme pleasure it’s experiencing, from the tingling nerves in your fingertips to the heightened sensitivity in your erogenous zones.
Plateau Stage
You know when you get to the point where sex just happens and it happens with someone you really like? That is the plateau stage. It’s where all of your efforts as a sexual creature come together and pay off big time. It occurs when your body’s heart rate and circulation continue to increase, accompanied by increased sensitivity, and muscle tension is also noticeable. You might even find yourself panting, sweating, and writhing with delight.
Phase of Orgasm
When you’ve completed stages one and two, it’s time to focus on what really matters: climaxing or the point of release. It’s similar to riding a rollercoaster. You’re going up and down, up and down, getting more and more exhilarated with each passing second before going off the rails into a wild ride. Prepare for involuntary screaming and moaning as you experience ecstasy like you’ve never experienced before.
Resolution Phase
Although sexual climax is a powerful experience, it is not the end. When you orgasm, your body releases a series of pleasure-inducing hormones, leaving you with a sense of calm that makes you feel completely content and often a little tired. This is referred to as the resolution phase.
7 things to know about female Orgasms
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You can orgasm in various erogenous zones
Yes, nipple orgasms exist and are as real as they sound! Many women can orgasm simply from nipple stimulation or from one of the many erogenous zones with increased sensitivity. Understanding your pleasure spots and treating them with respect will make all the difference on your way to orgasm town.
Multiple orgasms are possible
The female body is designed for multiple orgasms in rapid succession, and while this is entirely true, it is also quite rare. These can be spaced out, occur one after the other, or be felt before your body recovers from the previous one. One thing is certain: it will make you giddy with delight.
Penetration alone may not be enough
Vaginal penetration alone does not seem to suffice for many women. Because of their numerous nerve endings, they require clitoral stimulation. Studies have also shown that women are more likely to experience orgasms from a variety of sex acts than from just one.
You can have orgasms while sleeping
Many women, like men, have nocturnal orgasms as a result of wet dreams. Nocturnal orgasms, a common occurrence in the REM (Rapid Eye Movement) sleep cycle, have the power to leave you with an intense sensation aching for more.
Female ejaculation does exist
Female ejaculation, not to be confused with squirting, is the involuntary release of fluid from the vulva when aroused. The ejaculate is a thick, white, milky fluid emitted by the paraurethral glands on either side of the urethra.
Hitting G-spot is not impossible
The G-spot may be difficult to find for those who are just starting out, but it is not impossible to find. This sensitive area is 1-2 inches up the front wall of your vagina, towards your stomach. While this varies from person to person, simply using your fingers or a sex toy angled upwards will assist you in locating and, quite literally, hitting the g-spot to trigger an orgasm like no other.
G-Spot Orgasms are far more better
G-spot orgasms can sometimes make clitoral ones look insignificant. This is due to the fact that the former have a slower build, feel deeper, and occur through internal stimulation, hitting you in ‘waves’ rather than the single ‘peak’ feeling of a clitoral orgasm.